So, I’ve been teetering back and forth as to whether or not I was gonna answer Miss Strawberry‘s Sexual Meme posted back over a month ago but there have been so many great responses I felt the need to provide my seemingly unique insight. Rather, the insight of someone who is, joyously, sexually active in Second Life. Nearly all the respondents it seemed had either lost interest in sex in SL or never had interest to begin with and I really couldn’t be more opposite. It seems the longer I spend playing in SL (voice and text), the more rich it feels and the more intrigued I become.
Meme instructions: Answer the following sexual questions because I am a perv and want to know all about your sex lives. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments so I can perv all over your answers, multiple times.
Sexual Questions: (for RL and/or SL)
What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? – If I have to pick a label, I prefer pansexual – both in RL and SL. Meaning, I’m attracted to people without much regard to sex or gender. For me, SL sex has been a bit of a boon in that in the virtual environment you can play so much with phsyical sexual characteristics (Why yes, I do have a penis from time to time in private moments) and identities can be much more gender-fluid (I do adore fembois…). But for the most part genital arrangement to me means far less than the person they’re attached to.
Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – Mmm. I’m already jumping on the freak train early here, but for me it’s feet. I love sexy, clean feet. On women, in particular they are just so… nummy. But the first thing I notice? The eyes.
Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – In SL? I’m a hooker. No, literally. I fuck for fun and profit. 😉 I’m actually not as promiscuous in SL as I have been in the past lately, but things have been changing lately too. In RL I’m definitely not a prude, the fact that I have a masturbation ritual and love voice sex will attest to that, but I don’t really have sex anymore – and most of the time I don’t know if I ever will again. Trauma kind of messed me up like that – being touched beyond heavy petting makes me lock up and panic.
What turns you on? – Respect. Adoration. That sound someone makes right before they have an orgasm (you know the one). Sexy shoes. Their sloped back as they kneel at my feet. Throbbing music… I could go on like this for a while.
Are you dominant or submissive? – For the most part, dominant. That said, I do have a very particular submissive streak – it’s just not the easiest thing in the world to bring out find and frequently requires treading the thin line between force (sexy hot times) and violence (breaking down in tears).
Which sexual position is your favorite? – Mmm. With somone that has a penis, in their lap – facing them with my legs wrapped around their waist. With a person that has a vagina (or both – yum!), face down on my belly with it all up in my face. 😉 In a threesome? Greedy middles.
Do you have any fetishes? – Aside from the previously mentioned foot fetish, which extends into shoes (high heels in particular as a top and bottom), I have a fairly extensive list. The short version: D/s (myself as the dominant party), cuckholding, lingerie, gender play (sissies in particular), orientation play (ie: forced bi, etc), body worship, face sitting, hypnosis…
Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – In SL? Been there, done that, got the g-string. In RL… maybe in the past I would have, I have worked as a phone sex operator so it’s not a horrifically huge step. Anymore, I’m far too shy and anxious about sex at all – let alone with an audience!
Do you consider yourself sexy? – In RL, no. Not really. I think I’m plain, nothing special. I think part of the appeal of SL for me – I can be as sexy as I want to be, and I think I’m one sexy bitch. 😉
A special thanks to my mystery man, who was an excellent sport about letting me take naughty pictures of myself wrapped around him.